He may HATE YOU
at first, but he will Respect you later …
I need to break up with my boyfriend. But I don’t want to tell him I’m already seeing someone else. I just want to break up. It seems like every time we break up, he always somehow creeps into my life again. We keep breaking up, then getting back together, then breaking up, then getting back together. When I see him at Salsa clubs, I just don’t know what to do.
– Just Want To Move On”
“Dear Just Want To Move On,
If you are not honest with him, you are leaving a door open to let him in again – especially if you give the impression that you are “alone”.
Honesty is the best policy.
You want to be remembered as “Honest”. Make sure you tell him that. Tell him the truth. The truth is like a bandade. If you just rip it off, and get it over-with, it is sharply painful at first, but not as tormenting as the slow, agonizing pain of lying and/or beating-around-the-bush about your true reason.
Be a hero and let him go – honestly, truthfully, and completely. He may hate you at first, but he will respect you later.” – Edie, The Salsa FREAK!!