There’s no substitute for hard work and 10,000 hours.

There’s no substitute for a leader’s ability to follow. The BEST leaders in the world are GREAT followers.

They understand, finally, what they’re putting their partner through.

When you put yourself in another person shoes, that is the birth of Compassion.

Being humble, the way you understand it, versus being compassionate, are two separate things, depending on the context.

However, having compassion in everything you do, CREATES humbleness.

Dancing with performers, never impressed me.

Dancing with showoffs never impressed me.

Dancing with a guy that puts me into shine’s 50% of the song never impressed me.

Dancing with guys who only dance for themselves and never look at me nor take care of me on the floor, never impressed me.

The World’s Best Leads instructional DVD series that I did with some of the top leads in the world is just that. The top LEADERS in the world. NOT the top performers.

Performers, that basically leave me there and start dancing for themselves, by themselves, completely forget about how I feel, leave me feeling used and worthless.

Focus on becoming a World Class LEADER.   Nothing less.  

Focus on making sure SHE is OK, that SHE feels good, that SHE feels loved and protected and cherished.

TRUE world class leads have GREAT compassion and RESPECT for those that follow them.

if you do this, you will be loved.
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